Pet Peeve Alert

So I have a lot of pet peeves. A LOT. This I know.

One of my more major pet peeves is when people make observations about me to me. I do not need my personality traits, etc., pointed out to me. "You look sick" - music to a girl's ears. "You seem annoyed" - Now I am for sure.

Well, at work, we have a rep who works out of our New York office. I only interact with him over the phone and through e-mail, for business related purposes. This past week I got the opportunity to put a face to a name.

During our *ahem* after work festivities, he decided to start to tell me that I seem to be a very guarded individual (maybe he secretly works part time with that damn handwriting analyst...). He would like to get to know the "many layers of Jaime" - maybe I'm giving him too much credit by assuming he meant this in a more appropriate context than he actually did.

Sigh. Is it that obvious? Seriously - we have a 'I'll book your flight, send me your expense report'-style interaction...how personal was/is he expecting me to get?