Thursday, May 20, 2010

Asking a Man Out, Part II

Ok, so since a discussion got started - some follow-up questions on the post:

 Generally speaking, men were raised to believe that if they are interested in a woman, they should ask her out.  However, does this apply to the generation of men, say, 30 and under?  Is this the generation of men who were raised with beliefs that women can make the move?  Did the feminist movement make men second guess this?  Do a lot of men today have experience with women initiating?  That, and do men like getting asked out by women, as my friend suggested?  Or do men prefer to be in the driver's seat?  I realize this varies from guy to guy.  I think a lot of men will initially say something like 'oh, it's AWESOME if a woman makes the first move' - however, in their mind, it's a Jessica Alba-esque woman, not an every day woman who they may or may not be interested in in the first place.  Do any of my male readers (I know I have at least five!) have experience with getting asked out by a woman?  Do they have experience rejecting a woman?

As I always say - your thoughts?

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